Dude it's so weird cus my parents have no inclination to help out. And it's not like I think they owe me. But when they're 70 and asking to live in my house idk that I'll be able to say yes. When I was struggling through medic school to do something worthwhile with my life, I was under a constant criticizing attitude. I was under more stress than what medic school did to me. And people have failed and committed suicide after failing this class... its years wasted. They dont even get that if they had any shed of respect for who I am and the choices I've made that they'll get ir all back as I age and grow wealthy. I've chosen the tortoises path over the hare because I'll actually be able to support myself forever once I move out. But that looks like failure to a white family.... I've had my outfit for medic school thrown in the trash disposable because I left it in the dryer and went out with friends on a school night. They want me out so bad that they punished me and almost got me kicked out of school. And I pay rent, do dishes and fix anything too heavy or difficult for their frail bodies. Yet it's never enough. My mom goes to vegas and gambles her savings away yet gets angry that I have student loans. Like how about invest in my future instead of mother fucking slot machines.... and her friends don't even see and issue with it. All white of course... so. I work 2 jobs and go to school and am in a band. And that's considered not enough for them.... be happy you gave family that understands cyclical gratitude