obv found on r/incels

I just don't understand why anyone would settle for being so mediocre. Why does anyone want to play the victim their whole life. It's easier to just roll up your sleeves and just go get what ya want. Learn to do all the stuff you find interesting. Go places you think sound fun. Find something you are passionate about and figure out a way to get paid for it. It's really not that hard.

I'm not saying go out and scream WIN WIN WIN!!! at everything. I'm saying go and enjoy life. Live and learn. Why settle for eating junk food, getting fat, being alone and anti social and blaming everything and everyone on misery. That sounds like it's thousands of times more difficult than going out and having fun.

We live in the easiest time ever to get information. Imagine if the spent the rest of the time reading subs on how to r/solotravel for cheap and r/personalfinance to save their r/minimumwage job. All while studying something they enjoyed and bouncing around those subs, instead of echoing all the hatred around incels. That sub would shrivel up and maybe we could start getting rid of some of the real hate going on.

I just don't understand it. I understood one guy a bit, but he still didn't get all the stupid hate bullshit they spread.

/r/ChoosingBeggars Thread Link - i.redd.it