Delighted for you two!
Now that you've taken care of immediate dangers by getting out of the conflict zone (you've done a great job to make it on your own), make sure you find a place that is warm, safe and have people that you can feel you trust around you.
Being mega-paranoid is great - it will help keep you safe. Remember to take care of your mental health also - this is just as important as your physical health.
Some mental health tips:
Source: Had to raise myself as a kid with some shitty "guardians" that hindered rather than helped in bad ways. Much older and wiser now, but still bear the scars.
Hope you two have a wonderful life!