I feel like I didn't elaborate enough. I know that the OP was referencing just looks but when I say "men know what men want" it goes beyond that. Gay hookups are much different from straight in my experience. Disregarding looks entirely, men are more willing to have casual sex with complete strangers and are more willing to be seen/used as a sex object.

I guess where I start making assumptions is by thinking that desire to be objectified = prioritizing a hyperfeminine appearance. I've met people of all stages of transition coming from different backgrounds and its not like I can make a broad generalization other than they're human with the same follies as the rest of us. I just assume anyone who was a guy knows how to work a dick more reliably than a girl because they know what it feels like to have your dick rubbed the right way. Not all girls have that knowledge