i'm fucking pissed.

little bro (not so little is 23 yrs old). he just gave mom Covid and does not give a fuck. he will give her tea/food after 5-8 hours saying yes most of the time. She asked for a little massage? take a pain killer. she had a 103 fever, didn't even bother to check in. he thinks he is the shit and thinks we have done nothing for him.

he lives with us (i'm out of the country), he hates us for no reason for the last several years and more so now. We all had a tough life growing up, single mom pulled us through poverty but was abusive throughout. but I stopped that many years ago. he's had it easier though, i've been paying the mortgage since I turned 17 but he just started paying a little rent at 23 for example. when I was there, he wouldn't do his chores (literally only take out the trash which wouldn't happen for weeks --> 1000 fruit flies --> no remorse or clean up. 2 times in 3 months)... she asked him to clean his shoes outside so all the gravel from snow doesn't come in? no, i vacuum the upstairs for you sometimes. my mom has fibro, depression, diabetes, etc.