Get it off your chest, what's bothering you right now?

A man who happens to be my father. Where do i begin?

He is just a fucking asshole, and I have to live with him (I'm not exactly a loser, I go to one of the best universities in my country [full-time student] which is near to where I live and I have a weekend job in a store). He is always questioning my every move, always pointing out that I'm doing something wrong, always making me feel as if I'm just a liability even though I never ask him for anything - he likes to think that he gives me everything though (my mother is the one who usually pays my tuition, he only helps her out when she asks, yet he is the breadwinner and earns a large annual salary by my country's standards, and likes to talk about money not being an issue for him), he's always insinuating that I am lazy/going nowhere in life (despite performing better in school than what he did). Another thing is that he sometimes asks a question with a painfully obvious answer or gives me some stupid instruction to do something his way, and when I respond he has an issue with my tone and calls me disrespectful and compares me to other people's children, because I probably sigh or roll my eyes a little at the useless shit that comes out of his mouth. He talks shit about people that I care about, he is very judgmental. I just can't fucking stand him, I can't wait to get a job and finally move out.

He makes me hate myself. When he can see that his words are clearly upsetting me he'll ask me why I'm so depressed in a snide tone, and the funny thing is that he is a psychologist (doctoral level). I am not making this up, he is just a really fucked up person.

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