Oh dear god

College is a time to experiment with what you think you "might like" to see if you "do like" new things. Some guys and some girls prefer one-on-one because they have trouble focusing sexual energy on more than one person at a time - but you can't know that until you fully zone-in and try with multiples.

It doesn't sound like you are at risk to be jealous of the other guy with your ex - or to re-catch feelings for your ex - or for the other girl - and if everybody's willing, why not?

That said, first time sex with girls is usually not epic, because one or both of you are a bit on-guard and unable to completely relax and enjoy the feelings. Plus neither of you know the idiosyncratic ways to please the other. That, plus guys are often more reserved in devil's-3-ways and coupled-four-ways because they don't want the other guy to think they might be gay. I wouldn't have high expectations for the time. And bring Plan-B. Just have fun and enjoy what nature gave us.

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