Alessian (on the body), Hulking Draugr and the Torc of Tonal Constancy, plus any 1 piece of a monster set. Between dark deal and the werewolf heavy attack you'll need very little recovery so feel free to go full infused/weapon damage on the jewelry and you can use Streak and Race against time liberally to keep your magicka under 50% to proc the torc's stam recovery component.

You'll be tanky with great passive healing from health recovery and yet still have decent damage. Good for solo pve and pvp alike. Keep a medium damage set on you to replace the alessian for when you want to go all out damage for trials etc, adjusting cp accordingly.

Until you get to cp160, just keep leveling various skill morphs; you can decide upon a build/rotation when you have the full toolbox of abilities unlocked and levelled. So, until then, any abilities you've already fully leveled (which I appreciate will be your favourites) unbar them for the time being and keep leveling other morphs. It'll be worth it in the end, and you sometimes happen upon other combinations of abilities you might never otherwise have tried.

In particular you'll want bound armanents on your front bar, not so much for the ability itself but for all the passive benefits it brings. Also, don't overlook the fighters guild abilities.