On the hatred for unicorn hunters - what do we all see as the role of a “unicorn”?

Don't mention it! I just figured it might be interesting for some because "unicorn hunting" traditionally makes us think of the man as being the proactive element, while the couples I know (and most that I heard of) who pull off threesomes successfully and had a lot of them are pretty much all like what I described. One that we spoke to even joked that it's funny how her husband never even brought up FFM threesomes before she did, and now has them constantly, while for most couples FFMs are a thing that men constantly pester their girlfriends/wives with only to never have a single one. His response went something like "yup, I played the long con, I knew she would bring it up herself if she truly wanted them, but if she didn't, then there would be no point in forcing her to do something she doesn't truly want."

I think it's a much healthier perspective than the one we usually see among couples who want to have threesomes.

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