So, I re-wrote my post.. because "context is everything", and at the very start I mentioned that some details might have been left out and to ask questions. (or something to that extent).

I think you may have read too much into the wrong part of the post though. I'm not concerned about her being interested or not. The first time we met, she wasn't flirty. The second time, yeah, undeniably so. I didn't want to come off wishy-washy to her, because the first time around, I stuck my foot in my mouth and came off as not being interested... as in, I turned her away. The second time we spoke, I apologized to her, explained myself to some degree, more convo. ensued... if she weren't flirting with me outright that time... wow, I'd hate to see just how obvious she is when she DOES flirt! :)

I'm concerned about the money aspect. Nobody likes dating broke, and I re-wrote my post to mention that specifically. I've never dated broke before, never been single and broke, never had cancer before either.