I bet you say that to make yourself feel better but in reality you never gave them a full honest chance. I know the girl who said goodbye in August never gave her and i a real full chance since the day she said goodbye Jon called and bragged about doing her in the back seat of his car. The night I bailed Raymond out of jail my phone was stolen from my truck and one of low keys girls recovered it from the Mexican she was on a paid date with when she stole a few phones from him at 1506 w maple. I always gave my person unconditional love, loyalty, and respect. If you gave them any less than that you never gave them a chance. She taught me that. I honestly pity you and your person. If they are like me you probably ruined one of the few people willing to give those things. Honestly it took me 5 years after my divorce that I can prove everything I said but because she knows my ex wife through matthew whose voice I recognized when he called as one of the 11 that dragged me from my house and attacked me. I can send you pics of my jeans stained with my own blood from what was done to me that night. I can play you the call with the da office before that where I found out the cops had requested a warrant to arrest my ex wife for 1st degree rape. I can show you the texts from her in 2017 telling me to get over it. But because of those two I'm not even good enough to deserve a chance to defend myself against the lies told about me. Hell I can show you the officers sworn affidavit that my alleged violation was 18 days before I was served and it was a single polite call to the lawyers office, I never so much as tried to contact my ex wife. I can also prove the officer that railroaded me his wife is my ex wife's good friend of over a decade named Amy. So please consider all that and then tell me him or I was ever given a chance because I can prove every word if you ever want the honest truth