I only fall for people for abusers and damaged people.

This is the problem.

I'm not settling.

I'm 25 and I've never dated, slept with or been in a relationship with anyone I genuinely didn't think was amazing.

I love myself, and look up to myself. Honestly, I think I'm amazing person and no one can take that from me.

I'm not writing this with self pity about how I'm only good enough for shitty people, I write this laughing at myself, embarrassed that the only people I want are people I know 100% are terrible people for me. Yet they are the ones I want.

So do i settle and date the girls I don't really want that will treat me right? or do I chase the people I truly want that will inevitably break my heart?

Part of me wants to settle for the girl that will treat me right, I guess I'm trying to avoid it.

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