OP unfortunately found a contractual grey area, where he lost his job after his final mortgage approval deadline but before closing. Seller refuses to budge. At stake? $20k in earnest money.

it is. LAOP posted this:

"19. DEFAULT

Upon default by Buyer, Seller shall have the right to the Deposits in accordance with Section 5, such right to be without prejudice to the right of Seller to require specific performance and payment of other damages, or to pursue any remedy, legal or equitable, which shall accrue by reason of such default. If Seller defaults in the performance of this Agreement, Buyer shall have the right to the Deposits in accordance with Section 5, and Buyer may pursue any and all remedies available at law or equity, including but not limited to specific performance. All disputes between Buyer and Seller over the disposition of the Deposits shall be governed by Section 5."

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