I am so sorry for your loss. Listen to others, don’t open it unless you are ready for anything and everything that comes your way.

I had to dig because of financial matters which I finished in couple of hours but I couldn’t stop there even though I wanted to. I ended up searching anything and everything that will help in understanding why he did what he did. It didn’t help, years down the line, I still don’t understand. I found a darker side of my brother that I wish I can forget. I wish I had stopped looking but grieving can make you do things that you will never do in normal situations.

Hold onto the sweet, loving memories of your brother and time you had together. Don’t tarnish it by unnecessary snooping, focus on your father and yourself.