I agree with the last paragraph for type 9 but the description generally doesn’t reflect my childhood/upbringing.

I didn’t have an active/domineering parent. I had 2 absent parents and lived between my parents and their families’ homes. I always think of my older sister as the one consistent “parent” figure in my life. She’s like 3 years older and we didn’t have a good relationship growing up, she was pretty controlling but at some point, I got used to her telling me what to do and would feel extremely anxious and lost without her guidance. I only really got to know/developed a relationship with her when I was much older though when we started living together (I was 13 y/o) so I don’t know if she had anything to do with my type. I came to realise that one of my biggest fears was being without guidance/support (like a type 6). I would ask my sister to tell me what to do all the time and she wasn’t particularly invested but she had pre-existing anger/control issues (I suspect she’s 7w8) and had no problem telling me what to do, which I was thankful for. I’m old enough to make my own decisions now but I still go to her for advice every now and then lol.

I’m a 9w1 sx/sp by the way and relate to the type 1 and 4 dynamics more.