Opinions on super likes? Do they come across as desperate? As a guy, I wouldn’t think it is weird to get one. How would you feel if you received a platinum SL with a message? I think the message could definitely help you stand out.

I usually work off of superlikes, guys that superlike me I end up in a relationship with (not all the superlikes, but relationships that develop from tinder).

The guys I have dated that were only a ‘match’ Tend to be just playing a numbers game in order to find a hook up or fwb type of thing.. which I see through by date three..

So, Im a fan of the superlike, and if a guy superlikes me I’ll chat to him first since they made the first move, that seems like fair etiquette to me, but I don’t know if others feel the same..

Anyhow, don’t be shy if you really like someone and want to hit it off for something serious :)

And if you are just looking for a hook up kinda thing.. she’ll be able to read that, as someone looking for something serious would be happy to meet and date a few times without any hook up.

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