I usually work off of superlikes, guys that superlike me I end up in a relationship with (not all the superlikes, but relationships that develop from tinder).
The guys I have dated that were only a ‘match’ Tend to be just playing a numbers game in order to find a hook up or fwb type of thing.. which I see through by date three..
So, Im a fan of the superlike, and if a guy superlikes me I’ll chat to him first since they made the first move, that seems like fair etiquette to me, but I don’t know if others feel the same..
Anyhow, don’t be shy if you really like someone and want to hit it off for something serious :)
And if you are just looking for a hook up kinda thing.. she’ll be able to read that, as someone looking for something serious would be happy to meet and date a few times without any hook up.