[Orgasm troubles]

Well where to start?

You're a young man who feels like he's doing everything he supposed to be doing correct?

Especially when you're using terms like being able to "fuck for an hour" or "for probably over an hour and a half without cumming" as if that's the goal.

"After pounding a girl for like 40 minutes they're mostly always "too tired" to help me"

You have the stamina for sure but you're missing the point. Sex is not about just your stamina.

Sex is about intimacy. Sex about being curious and exploring in getting to know each other's bodies with respect. It's about affection, giving pleasure and receiving pleasure, about paying attention to micro signals from your partner about whether they're enjoying what you're doing or not. It's about being in the moment to enjoy and honor the privilege of being with her. It is not to "pound" her like a piece of meat.

Based on what you wrote, it's no wonder that the women you have been with are tired. They're likely laying there unwilling to speak up because I know it's not gonna make a difference. And they are probably in pain. Likely telling you that they're too tired because they are, but also because they got turned off by lack of diversity of methods.

Most women do not orgasm through PIV sex. Most women prefer oral but only when it's done very gently and without attention to the quitter is like a golf ball. Focusing on the labia can do wonders.

If you truly care about your partner then change it up. There are tons of other methods besides PIV. That doesn't he have to be the whole show on your part.

Learn: Well where to start calling your young man who feels like he's doing everything he supposed to be doing correct?

Especially when you're using terms like being able to "fuck for an hour" or "for probably over an hour and a half without cumming" as if that's the goal.

"After pounding a girl for like 40 minutes they're mostly always "too tired" to help me"

You have the stamina for sure but you're missing the point. Sex is not about just your stamina. Sex is about *intimacy.* six is about being curious and exploring in getting to know each other's bodies. It's about affection, giving pleasure and receiving pleasure, being in the moment to enjoy and honor the privilege of being with her. It is not to "pound**" her like a piece of meat.

Based on what you wrote, it's no wonder that the women are tired. They're laying there unwilling to speak up. And probably in pain. Likely telling you that they're too tired because they are but also because they got turned off by lack of diversity of methods.

Most women do not orgasm through PIV sex. Most women prefer oral but only when it's done very gently and without attention to the quitter is like a golf ball. Focusing on the labia can do wonders.

If you truly care about your partner then change it up. There are tons of other methods besides PIV. That doesn't he have to be the whole Show on your part.

Learn: https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/3zxguj/advicequestion_next_step_for_better_sex/

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