Some upper middle class and middle class Asian parents are almost as boba as Asians born in the US, though. My own parents are like that, especially my dad, and I've known various other Asian immigrants who are like that. They tend to be fairly educated, like grad degrees from the US, and very much within the liberal American worldview. They read/watch liberal media. They might work in US companies among white and US-born Asian liberals. So they take that on, and even these immigrant parents have pride about being above the other Asian immigrants who are behind and supposedly "anti-black."

So there are endless permutations and nuances, and people can navel gaze to death on every Asian American issue there is.

It's not just US-born Asians that claim to love and apologize deeply for black/brown/LGBTQ as a badge of honor. Some immigrants parents who are middle-aged or Boomers and immigrated as adults claim all this, too, also as a badge of honor, and to feel good about themselves for being more Westernized and "above" the other Asians.