Well, I misunderstood the reason for your posting. Unless someone says they're just venting, it isn't clear to me. It seems that's what you were doing? I wasn't saying you're feelings are wrong. What I was commenting on and what seemed like an overreaction to me is the idea that you seemed to be conveying that your 8 year relationship with him was some kind of sham (because of how he expressed himself on the spot as a caller to a radio program) Look, I don't know you, nor him, and as far as I know he may be a not so great partner overall, and this was just the straw that broke the camel's back. But if this is it that he's done to wrong you...it doesn't seem like a reason to throw away an otherwise perfectly good relationship. I may have misread you, but my interpretation of what you said was that you aren't sure if this relationship is something you should be in. And that is what I was commenting on, not your feelings.

Either way, I wish you the best.