Parents declining partner cause he is from different race and culture

OP I honestly understand because I’ve been in your situation but guess what I didn’t marry him and Allah SWT gave me someone from the same ethnic background and culture as him and we’re happier than ever. Even more he brings me closer to my deen. And this is what I want for you sincerely.

When you pray And something doesn’t go as planned it doesn’t mean that AllahSWT doesn’t love you or doesn’t want what’s best for you because clearly only he knows what’s best for you.

If he takes this man from you(I’m not saying he will) but if he does, you have to have faith in him and full trust that he’ll give you something far better than what you’ve lost.

And if he give you this man it means there’s something in the relationship that he knows will be beneficial to the both of you.

Every loss and gain in life is khair for you. Yes it is human nature to feel down and in this moment Satan uses the opportunity to bring you closer to him.

Pray for khair. If you’re praying for anything in deen even if it’s kids pray for one’s that’ll be khair to you.

Please try and pray Tahajjud cry your eyes out to your rabb because we are just redditors but no one will solve your problem like he will.

Take it this way he made you make a Reddit post in order to see things clearly from other perspectives this is his guidance now it is up to you to run back to him for Allah SWT says “if you come to me walking I’ll come to you running”

Don’t ever forget this

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