Partners expectations

My SO is a sole provider. At some point during our first we decided to put the cat in a shut basement at night and for us that sleeping in separate rooms was a great idea. He doesn’t have to wake up during the night and I don’t when he gets up early. We still find quality time (three kids now;)). It’s not for everyone but it works for us splendidly! He drives for work so I don’t want him tired. Dim your phone, if iphone there is a zoom feature that will dim more than normal. And start him sleeping with a box fan that’s loud. We both sleep with a fan. And it helps the kids fall asleep and stay asleep too. His short fuse temper needs work! My bf is like that but only for certain things. And he’s getting way better with time and me not tolerating it. You don’t deserve to be spoken to in harsh tones.

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