Do partners who’ve cheated ‘owe’?/ Is it cheating?

Let’s say your girlfriend said she wanted to borrow $500 from him. You disgust it, but you said you needed more time to think about the loan. Instead of waiting for you to give your consent, your girlfriend “borrowed “/steals the money from your wallet and tries spending it. You walk in on her drunk buying stuff on eBay.

Would you consider that theft? Yes, I would consider it theft. If you discussed something and told her you needed more time, then what she did was cheating. Her actions are not OK just because she was drunk. There are things that drunk people do that or accidents, being clumsy and knocking something off a table or sending stupid messages to people. But if they cause harm there still responsible for it even if they’re drunk

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