Thanks for everyone's feedback. It turns out the profile is something he forgot about. We have definitely been clear with each other regarding exclusivity but in this lifestyle how can you really expect that? So he said he didn't log in recently, doesn't know why it says that. I don't know if I believe him. I was fully prepared to walk because transparency is my deal breaker. If you want to look, that's fine, you wanna fuck, okay be safe...but don't lie to me about it. You would think since we're both liars to our spouses we would be comfortable being honest with one another but idk. I've had my foot out the door for quite some time now with him. He tells me all these really loving things but I don't know what to do with that