I agree. I started dating a few months after final. Just to find someone to do my activities with, not looking for love.
I ended up finding a person 400 miles away. While it sucks not having someone to do my activities with every weekend as was my plan, I find myself speaking to him on the phone 2-4 hours a night.
Now, we are planning to get together over Labor Day weekend and I'm like a little school girl with anticipation. I never had these types of conversations in the 10 year with my husband.
This man is like a piece of my soul that was missing.
And there's little likelihood it will evolve into something rational.
Maybe that's just what I need. Something irrational. ?
Congrats on letting your guard down and experiencing true life and love.