Patronizing ”encouragement” after the discard?

Mine literally loved me one day, dumped me and replaced me the other, loved me the other, hated me the other and left. 2 days after, she texted my Happy Birthday and the next day wrote to me she'd call the police if I contact her again (I went through her sibling to ask what the fuck was going on because I knew it wouldn't make sense coming from her). She then contacted my ex and ask a service for her (her words): to check on me because I'm not doing okay. Sick shit. Asked about why she wrote that HP crap, she said I knew I was alone and wanted me to get better. No! It was really just for her to be better. 1 week after the threats and NC, she asked to get the room just next to mine (we were roommates), said she missed me, and wanted us to be friend because I calm her. Got a no as an answer and, when asked about it, she said she only asked because she had trouble sleeping and wasn't comfortable. Meanwhile, she proclaimed to need space and time, and couldn't care less about my emotional space.

And when she dumped me, she told me her abusive ex dumped her by text and to see how she's fine today. She always told me she dumped him. Anyway, I just told her she was trying to minimize my pain and that was shitty. Confronted with it later, she reversed the whole thing again and everything she said started to make no sense. I knew she had supplies, I knew she loved me, I knew she hated me.

Everything was always about her. There just wasn't no way she could be a companion. Always projecting her shitty thinking on me and never owning her crap.

/r/BPDlovedones Thread