It’s not that most men (or Muslims) are the “issue” - it’s that they should take responsibility to make things better where they have influence.

'This is something I'm passionate about, so you should be passionate about it too. And if you're not, I'm going to call you out as being part of the problem.' People are always trying to guilt trip others into joining their moral crusades, to the point where now even corporations like Gillette are doing it.

There's nothing wrong with asking, but if you're declined by somebody and they're otherwise not causing any trouble, leave them the fuck alone. It is not their responsibility to fix problems that they themselves are not contributing to.