I don’t make minimum wage..... I said I make well above minimum wage.... I qualify for SNAP because my daughters father is supposed to pay child support but almost never does.... also I just started a new job a few months ago, which leaves me on the brink of. I longer qualifying.... the sole treason they instill qualify is literally because I don’t consistently get child support, which if I did, would tip me over the edge of qualifying.... I also specifically stated I didn’t want an opinion on my case, just that I was giving background.... but wanted other peoples’ experiences with such cases...

And quite frankly had you a actually read the details, my kid has virtually no relationship with her father or other siblings , as I had sole custody for the past two years and prior to that we had an order in which he never followed, which is why I had it changed in the first place to some custody ... he didn’t even bother to show up to court or even call in for the hearing because he didn’t care what happened...... he is the type of dad that never wants anything to do with his kid(s) then gets a girlfriend he wants to impress and decides he wants to play dad again.... that’s why we have a new order that gives him the limited visitation he has ... because he got a new girlfriend and gave her this sob story about me not letting him see our child .... then decided after 6 years he wanted custody to make himself look good for her....

But that’s besides the point. The country I am wanting to move to lays less, yet the cost of living is less there also. Like a 3 bedroom house here is gonna run you probably 1000+ if it’s nice, maybe only 700-800 if it’s decent..... over there it’s like 300... gas is like 1.50’a gallon vs 3.50, etc.

Basically , the rate of money I would get there would be equivalent if not more then here due to the cost of living here being so high....

And I have already read up on The Hague convention and this country is a part of it....