People of AskReddit does race matter to you in a relationship why or why not?

No, not at all. I have found men attractive from many different races. It would have mattered to my grandma. She told me often how to not marry an African American and not to have children with him. It blew my mind when she first said this to me. I couldn't believe, my grandma who could be sweet and nice, would think like that. But after that I started to notice other not so nice things she'd say. She was a very judgemental and opinionated, and a bit racist. Well she has passed on, so I luckily don't have to deal with her bullshit if I ever did end up meeting a p.o.c. I was falling for. I would be so embarrassed and angry if anyone in my family ever treated someone I cared for like shit just because of their skin color.

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