I’ve given my husband 12 years of my life to help me more. Yes he paid for my associates degree, but we recently got into a fight that opened my eyes a lot. He told me that since I make less money, I deserve to do more around the house. Even though I work more hours than him, take care of the kiddo, cleaning, cooking, etc. and he doesn’t help. So I asked him for more help around the house because I felt like I was drowning. And it triggered a huge fight. A marriage ending fight where all of the above was said. I can’t move past it, so I’m moving on. Now my husband has stepped up. AFTER divorce was brought up. I told him I’d give him a chance. But I just don’t feel the love for him. I know what he’s doing is a facade and will stop once he begins his MBA this fall. And I’ll be stuck with it all and more.