But at the same time, the argument can be used backwards. Religious people acknowledge that everything happen, good or bad, falls under our own hands, not God's. We're responsible for our own fate, not God.

If a doctor wasn't able to save a patient's life, people would blame the doctor but at the same time would mostly blame God. If the patient is saved, nobody would even mention God's name.

And to use the first argument, again, backwards. Then that means you'd rather have a safe experience for yourself without caring for what other players are going through. You'd rather the developers throw down the ban hammer on toxic player rather than the players fixing their attitude. And when it's your time to receive the hammer, justified or not, your intimidate reaction is to blame the developer, even though that's what you wanted in the first place