you don't know if she's attracted back to you or maybe she's actually chill and isn't looking for sex that night but could be a decent friend. you have to like show her you want to have sex and if she doesn't want to that kind of shuts down any other form of communication and like could result in you being humiliated.

I mean yeah but like... thems the breaks. Theres no great injustice going on here, just garden variety rejection. There is no amount of teaching that will guarantee you dont get turned down by women.

I don't think women can really relate to this because like all you have to do is smile and like not literally say no or be absolutely awful and it just works out. you never need to learn to talk to guys because there's always a guy who will do 95% of the talking for you

A lot of women probably can relate, because a lot of women actually have asked out or approached guys before. Ive asked out and been rejected by 3 men in my lifetime (one guy twice lmao).

The reality is we too experience attraction and have people we want to have sex with, and very often those people reject us. More often it takes the shade of being ignored and not outright face-to-face rejection, so yknow thats nice, but it still hurts. And for ugly looking women shit can be brutal.