People of reddit, what is one thing your family will never understand about you?

That while I love my younger sister, I don't really like her that much. We're only 2 years apart, the product of divorce when we were very young, and actually grew up pretty well off with my mom. We both had our share of issues, but who doesn't? My mom started leaning on me (male) heavily when my sister started to get out of control. That turned us into enemies half of the time. She was also so mean in the things she would say and do. I moved away the second I could, and I don't go home often. Nobody I allow into my life speaks to me with the same kind of ugly hatred that she does when she's angry, and just about anything can ratchet her up to 11. Our extended family is hours away, and this all came to a head on a Christmas at my grandma's. She was just walking around looking to fight, trying to physically intimidate me and get in my face asking what are you going to do about it? Hit me? Inches from my face. She spit on me and I pushed her away. Here come the water works and crazy BS. Then everybody decided they needed to tend to her and that I should apologize, even though the family has literally been walking on eggshells forcing smiles the whole weekend. Then and there I refused to travel with her, or stay in the same house as her on visits. This is one of many incidents where she's held a situation hostage. But I'm the unreasonable one. There's much more to it, but that's the abridged version. She's honestly in a better place now, but I haven't forgotten, and I've honestly sought therapy for this, among other things.

Sorry for the complete lack of formatting. I just wanted to get that out.

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