happy birthday!
maybe we come from two different worlds but i thought birthdays are for people under 18.
maybe it is my mindset but i don't think birthdays are special becuase loads of people were born on that day.
I think it is a dangerous fantasy you have becuase your family and friends can't grieve you every second for the rest of their lives.
your mother would be devastated and destroyed- that is true,
i'm not being mean but people have their own lives to live they are not going to be sitting crying over your picture 24/7.
I have no idea why you would want to see those people sad about you?
Babies die of cancer and yet the world still turns and moves on.