People who had sex with someone with a disability of some sorts , what was different about that experience?

Dated a girl who had cerebral palsy. She could walk with crutches but usually used a wheelchair. The differences with sex was we had to go slower in the beginning, we had to communicate more explicitly, and we had to plan our activities more in advance. She had issues of spasticity and stiffness that we had to deal with and it took experimenting to find positions that worked. Psychologically, she had some issues with shame about her body and I had to overcome my own worries about hurting her or treating her like she was fragile.

Once we got it worked out, it was awesome. She had a high sex drive and some fun kinks she enjoyed. We were both young and eager and had sex as often as we could considering our housing circumstances. There was a single room bathroom in the old part of our community college campus where we had sex almost every day for a month. We also had sex in a bathroom at a casino. It was a memorable time for both of us.

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