Sorry, For clarification. There is a good 8 of us that have known each other for the most part since middle school. We're all in our mid20s, leaning towards 30. The problem is practically that the ex bf (loverboy), myself and the close friend are in the same circle. We all hang out at another guys house (where this close friend is renting from) so basically even though my bf did the cheating, everyone's reasoning was that he fucked a chick outside the circle. With me messing around "too close to home" it put the others on edge. It particularly bothers me that he did a one-to-one talk with them, saying that I did it on purpose to hurt him. I don't exactly feel like following the drama, so I haven't clarified my side of the story to them....Anyways, its either I talk to him at the expense of both of us being ostracized or just follow the rule the exbf and the friend who owns the house made. I care because they're my friends in the end and am hoping it may subside in time. Is this weird to think?