Got diagnosed with an illness that nearly rendered me blind and nearly lost a kidney and left me bedridden for a year. My so called best friend never bothered to check on me call or even text. When I confronted her at how disappointed I was she threw it back in my face and said I don’t understand what she’s going through. I’m selfish. And that she’s still dealing with the death of her brother. He died ten years ago. And had been having boyfriend issues and a feud with her neighbour. I’ve been there for her through thick and thin. Ever break up she’s gone through. Every issue she’s had. We are no longer friends as of a week ago.