People who think they'll always be single, why?

I associate fit with active. I'm not saying muscular, or lean - both my husband and I are neither of those things. But my husband is on his feet 10-12 hours a day, and we will still take the dog out for a few miles when he gets home from work. My time is spent on a farm venue weeding, raking, digging, hauling dirt and mulch... I'm fit but still chubby, because I love beer and I'm a pretty good cook at this point... we still go hiking in National Parks, swimming in the great lakes (he wears a shirt because he's embarrassed, but not too embarrassed to avoid the beach entirely, because he likes being active), dance decently at weddings, and overall keep moving. I don't care what his physique really looks like, as long as he is up for doing stuff outside.

Last guy I dated before him was thin but came home form his 2 day a week job to be a guild leader for WoW. That was how all of his free time was spent. I tried that for 4 years and I gained 30 lbs and became very unhappy and resentful. Plus he made me roll a healer.

TL:DR be active and do stuff together.

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