People who've dated a psycho: what incident made you aware that you were dating a psycho?

A few red flags. She was friends with all her ex-boyfriends and would go over to their apartments to make dinner and watch a movie even though I was super uncomfortable with it. It was my first relationship and she told me I was being uptight and wasn't experienced in the realm of relationships because that was normal.

Secondly, she once got drunk and mad I couldn't drop 8 of her cousins home from the bar simultaneously in my 5 seater sedan and because screaming at me in the bar and dug her nails into my forearms to prevent me from walking away from her. (bruised my arms the next) A few weeks later when she got drunk and I was dropping her home, she immediately decided she didn't want to be in the car (while I was driving on the highway) and she kicked car from drive into reverse while I was driving highway speeds, opened the door and tried to jump out - luckily I pulled her in. A month later, during her family NYE event, she was mad I wanted to see my parents at 1AM to wish them a happy new year so she hid my keys and once I found them I decided all this was too much so I tried to end the relationship - she followed me to my car, tried to smash the windshield and side mirrors and said she wanted to breakup with me. I said ok.

/r/AskReddit Thread