I am not angry at him anymore. He does get insufferable at times and makes me mad, but I can't stay mad when I see the way he lives and how unhappy he is.

Honestly no I don't. But aside from advising him to see a therapist and work out his deep behavioral issues I don't see what else you can do.

I know that many people find it unbelievable, but I like Tenda very much. He is way more interesting than the 2-3 narratives he talks about online. I want to meet him irl because I want to date him or be friends with him if for whatever reason he doesn't want to date me bc I am not what he imagined or he is truly gay or whatever.

When he started doxxing me, I sent him my real phone number. By real, I mean the one my family uses to contact me, not a couple of other numbers I have for everyone else. I told him "if u are serious about this and u really never want to meet me or have anything to do with me, post this number too. I will pay and change it and then I will know what kind of man you are. But if not, then keep it so you can contact me if there is truly an emergency or if I have no wi-fi for whatever reason".

He didn't post it and it has been over a month. So it was once again all tsundere pointless drama. Tenda created an extremely elaborate plan to approach me and get the incel tag off of himself. It's funny that he had calculated every other scenario besides me actually wanting to date him. He has very low self esteem.

For me, meeting online is no different than meeting someone irl at college or work or through common friends. I know Tenda for 2 years and I think it's time we meet irl.