typically people that struggle socially and have self esteem issues, history of abuse, mental health issues will face loneliness. This seems to be the case for a lot men, probably the ones right here, this distinction you made was just to diminish her experience. I’m not sure what your qualifiers are for “female loneliness” but I don’t think you’re the arbiter of that.

The whole “you can get sex tho” is something guys aren’t seeing through a woman’s perspective.

A man making do with just a casual encounter might provide some validation and an orgasm.

For a woman, stats show she probably won’t orgasm, cause he’s selfish/uneducated/rebuts any feedback, she goes home now feeling unsatisfied and having wasted her time hoping for something feels worse.

I can’t imagine there’s much validation to be had from guys that will stick it in anyone that lets them. worst case scenario she picked the wrong dude and something bad happens, or she gets pregnant.

Yeah it’s not the same as having no options at all, but she likely gains nothing for higher risk, I don’t personally view that as better.

Physical attraction will only get your foot in the door for attaining those things, her entire post highlighted when it came to forming a connection it wasn’t important. Even a hinderance because guys used her for her looks. Real love and genuine connection are always hard to come by, not to say some people don’t have a worse hand.

Describing this as a “self problem” is not empathetic. She isn’t at fault for the traumas in her life that caused her issues and the possibility of a crap casual encounter isn’t the checkmate you seem to be implying here. It’s weird to me not to have genuine sympathy unless you deem the other person worse off than you.