Hey man, notice I didn't use that as my intial argument until i was asked if I actually knew anyone that was affected by the decison? I recognized that circumstance was not what I was talking about wholly. But you needed an example where they were affected by the choice. You got one.

I answered the questions you asked me. The stance still is, don't make choices that aren't yours.

She can choose which religion she practices. Faith doesn't come so easily. I disagree what what you just said because she chooses her religion as an adult, not her family. But her family made a choice that was not theirs.

The affects she feels to this day have not to do with "crazy family". She chooses to stay strong in her faith, but a choice someone else made for her took the entirety of it away.

At the end of the day she has holes in her ears that keep her out of her organized religion. Holes that she did not put there.