Probably time to write off this relationship. Especially if you'd never actually visited with one another before this.

If the two of you had actual sexual chemistry (and good sex) at some point, in person, before you went on hormonal contraception, then trying to salvage this might be worthwhile.

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If you want to use hormonal contraception, it's time to work with your doctor and find one that works for you. If things don't work out in this relationship, then use the time while you're single between relationships to either A. find a form of hormonal contraception that works for you or B. give yourself time for your libido to recover, if it ever does.

Alternatively, look into copper IUDs, diaphragms, cervical caps, contaceptive sponges, spermicides, and so on, as things to supplement condom use.