Part of the problem from the perspective of an older person. Im 46. Is that its mostly younger people doing this below age 35. Above 35 it doesnt happen that much. I know that doesnt help yall that much but just wanted to throw that out there. So i think it means people just have some growing to do that ghost people. Ive been ghosted about 3 or 4 times in the past month. I just start blocking people now if they quit responding and i dont hear back after a day or two. I do the same thing on discord. That way you dont waste time with them unless they make another account then theres not much you can do. But you get what im saying. Best to just not give it much thought or let it bring you down. Then you can devote that time and energy to the people that do care and stick around.

I recently met two really amazing people that im good friends with about a month ago, this was right after i was ghosted and had also lost a long time friend group of 14 years. So the point is just keep trying theres friends out there to be found/had it just takes time, and a lot of effort and not letting the ghosts haunt you too long. Reddit is also filled with trolls and shitty people that live to make others lives miserable. Got to realize where were at too. Im not saying theres not good people. Theres great people on here, amazing people. But its harder to find those because theyre dealing with the ghosting and BS same as the rest of us so eventually they get tired and leave.

Alot of it i think is just luck finding the right people.

If anybody above 35 wants a PC gaming buddy feel free to DM me.