Planned Parenthood's Absurd Position on HIV Disclosure

That article of PP. Is technically selling people who do not want to have sex with someone with AIDS as if they were bad judging people and those accepting of having relationships with people with AIDS as someone caring. See page 4 of the article and in their own words "stigmatise or discriminate".

You see, I cant even think of kissing someone sick. This kills my mood inmediatelly a little fever, a rash, a flu, a bit of too much poop. What ever if my partner was sick I became a nurse and... a real one. (No kissing patients).

I was being discriminative towards my partner because I didnt want to kiss her red nose full of snot? No. I wanst. But I had right to take my decision to NOT kiss her. I did not like it. I still do not like it... and will not like it.

Did she get mad? Sure she did sometimes. But it was NOT my obligation to kiss her. I was not there to make her feel pleasure. And I had my own rights.

If people with AIDS do not want to reveal their status to someone... they plainly should not have sex with that someone. Simply because that someone has the right to decide to have sex or not with the person who has AIDS. Without being called as "discriminating and stigmatising".

I can understand how scary can be to reveal that news to someone who was your partner at the moment you got the news you had AIDS. But PP it is not refering to this partners only. It is also refering to possible future partners or people and that you can tell them "just started whenbyou dating" or "just later". Page 4 and 5.

I just put myself in the shoes of the person who is without knowledge having sex with a person who has AIDS. It does not matter if the person is on treatment and the risk is bellow 0,00000000001% KNOWLEDGE is power and I, you, she and him have the right to know our partners sexual pasts. To decide with that knowledge.

I recomend use condoms ALWAYS. No excuse for not using them. None. Ask your partners for their STDs past. And always make examps periodically. I would even ask for recent exams from my partner. And if you both had different sexual partbers before or continue. Make lab checks.

But lets say. I initiate the talk with my new gielfriend. We started dating 2 months ago. Being extracareful as I am I decide is time to have the STDs talk. She decides she feels NOT COMFORTABLE yet to have this talk with me. (Page 5, 3dh paragraph). So she ommits this information.

From MY perspective she has no AIDS. From HER perspectice she has the right to disclose this information later. What?

Where is MY right?

This sounds wonderful if all people with AIDS were caring and loving. But in every placf you go therf are good and bad people. And because of the bad people who do NOT care about the other person this law of disclosure before having sex should and it does, exist.

Because a person wont die of a heart break because they do not have sex with me. Im hot but not that much!

But I have the right to life my life and to choose the risks I want.

PP is puting sex pleasure above all else. Above the life of people at any stage either in the womb or out.

PP only focuses in the I. ME. EGO.

The ME EGO. Has the right to reject the kind of sex I have. But others... including my sexual partners and the people I create has no rights over my own PLEASURE.

Hedonism.

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