I see where your coming from, I am always over visiting but am not able to stay long because of my uncle, same goes with my mother, and her two sisters. If it adds more to it he has attempted suicide multiple times while he was raising his son, he is no man. No man at all. In addition to the countless substance abuse problems he has and psychiatric hospitals he has been too he constantly verbally abuses my 75 year old grandmother. She has been manipulated through trauma, and complete lies. He holds the potential of getting millions through the will (mostly assets), plus when previously given assets by his father, he turned it into a complete legal disaster. I understand your stance but I hope this sheds more light on the situation so I’m not looking like the asshole here