3. Please be kind and straightforward, Raptors

Please be kind and straightforward, Raptors

I had one woman who admitted to being a pedaphile on the first date. High school teacher who fell in love with her student. No shit. That was her coming out story. I ghosted the fuck out of her.

Had another first date with a woman who fucking detailed her physical and emotional abuse by her ex for 1.5 hours. Showed me the police photos submitted as evidence too. I ghosted the fuck out of her.

Dated multiple woman who I was 125% clear with concerning my want to keep things casual. They all say they are cool with that but when they change their mind and want more, I’m the asshole who led them on. Really? I was leading them on when I said “I will only ever want something casual.”

The point is, your one size fits all advice is bad. Women are told all their lives to be nice to people who don’t deserve it. Fuck that noise. Ghost scum bags. Dip when your instincts say someone is crazy and take your time to disentangle your life from your partner—because life and emotions are much complicated than “be nice to people under this particular banner”.

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