Please notice me :( 21/F looking for a female friend in the same boat,read first

Hello. I've read your post from start to end. I'm very lonely and have no friends at all. I have a partner and I see my mum and brother regularly. Other than them I truly have nobody. My extended family just don't talk to me and can't be bothered with me. Everywhere I go like groups, college etc I don't seem to be liked by anyone there and nobody initiates about keeping in touch etc. When I went to college last September till July this year I didn't make even one friend. Despite how much effort I put in to trying to converse with them. They spoke a little to me but nothing else.

I'm a female, just to let you know and would be interested in being a friend if you like. I wouldn't stop talking with you for no reason, and if I were not up for talking I'd simply just say as I wouldn't just ignore you as I've been ignored by people a lot. I've tried writing to people I knew when younger and they wrote a few times, and them just stopped and not heard from them in ages. One even said I was disturbing them even though all I said was hi how are you and I didn't constantly write all the time.

Due to having no friends or family apart from mum and brother I don't use any social sites. Nobody ever talks to me and I hate the kind of people who use them as they seem mostly self obsessed and show offy etc. People spend too much time wasting on them and I don't relate to people who use them. I don't drink or smoke etc. But that shouldn't mean I don't deserve at least one person around my age and gender to talk to.

I only have email, this and text. Hope that would be ok. I'm 23 and I love animals especially cats. I've had pets all my life. There always there and never judge or ignore you. I have a black cat and a gerbil currently. I like Japanese and Chinese cultures.

I like watching some comedy and horror films. I enjoy watching soaps on TV and documentaries. I value honesty as well. Anyway if you want to be my friend I'd be more than greatful.

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