Pleasing your parents

I had this mindset before. I believed I owed my mother for giving birth to me and feeding me and all of that.

As time goes on and I think more about it, I realise how dumb this really is. My mother takes this to the next level. She constantly reminds me that she would be living a life of luxury had I not been born. Every time we argue, or I challenge her on something ridiculous she says, she brings up how she spent all these years feeding me, wiping my ass as a baby(she legit said that)and that I owed her everything for her raising me as a kid, as if I asked to be born.

She genuinely belives I owe her for feeding me as a kid. YOU’RE SUPPOSED TO FEED YOUR KID.

Moral of the story is, you don’t owe your parents shit for having you and raising you. They took on the responsibility of feeding you the day they decided to have kids. Don’t let them pin it all on you.

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