I don't know, a crazy thing called being friends? I can only speak for myself, but looking back, out of the guys I liked in the past, 1 was generally attractive, one would be considered average, and 2 would definitely be considered below average by most people. Of those 3 were shorter than me too. I asked the last 2 out myself because I really liked them, and I had to do it because in both cases they liked me back but were too nervous and convinced I would reject them, so I made the move. According to your bullshit that is impossible. I won't deny that it's harder. You're less likely to be able to start a relationship when you meet someone, but that doesn't mean you will be forever alone.