Women DO enjoy porn in a way that is different - never said it's better.

I imagine myself in the situation - like if it's porn in a public place, I might imagine myself having sex in that place but usually with my partner and not the person in the video. Idgaf about who is in the video, and I do think that IS a distinction. I don't get off to other men.

How do you explain men using pictures or videos of Instagram models to jerk off to? Isn't it cause they are attracted to them and fantasise about fucking that specific model?

I'm not saying it is wrong. I do think it is normal to a certain extent, but it's also normal to not be super comfortable knowing your partner is getting off to other women.